I LOVED the Velveteen Rabbit book when I was a child. It tells the story of a stuffed rabbit and his journey to become real through the love of his owner. I can remember climbing into bed with my beloved stuffed bear under my arm as one of my parents would read the story to me over and over again.
A stuffed rabbit sewn from velveteen is given as a Christmas present to a small boy. The boy plays with his other new presents and forgets the velveteen rabbit for a time. These presents are modern and mechanical, and snub the old-fashioned velveteen rabbit. The wisest and oldest toy in the nursery, the Skin Horse, who was owned by the boy’s uncle, tells the rabbit about toys magically becoming Real due to love from children. The rabbit is awed by this concept; however, his chances of achieving this wish are slight.
One night the boy’s Nana gives the rabbit to the boy to sleep with, in place of a lost toy. The rabbit becomes the boy’s favorite toy, enjoying picnics with him in the spring, and the boy regards the rabbit as ‘REAL’. Time passes, and the rabbit becomes shabbier, but happy. He meets some real rabbits in the summer, and they learn that he cannot hop as they do, and say that he is not real.
One day, the boy becomes sick with scarlet fever, and the rabbit sits with him as he recovers. The doctor orders that the boy should be taken to the seaside, and that his room should be disinfected, and all his books and toys burnt – including the velveteen rabbit. The rabbit is bundled into a sack and left out in the garden overnight, where he sadly reflects on his life with his boy. The toy rabbit cries and a real tear drops onto the ground, and a marvelous flower appears. A fairy steps out of the flower and comforts the velveteen rabbit, introducing herself as the nursery magic fairy. She says that because he is old and shabby and Real, she will take him away with her and “turn [him] into Real” – to everyone.
The fairy takes the rabbit to the forest, where she meets the other rabbits and gives the velveteen rabbit a kiss. The velveteen rabbit changes into a real rabbit, and joins the other rabbits in the forest. The next spring, the rabbit returns to look at the boy, and the boy sees a resemblance to his old velveteen rabbit.
Published in 1922, the story still offers the same messages today. After reading this particular passage, it struck me that the story that I loved so much as a child holds true today for many different reasons.
I feel like I’m in one of those moments in my life where I’m “loose in the joints and very shabby”. If we are truly honest with ourselves, we all have those moments in our life. But as the wise horse says, “those things don’t matter all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand”. So while we might have those moments, what is telling and so very important is to not get stuck in them. To not allow ourselves to feel like we “break easily, or have sharp edges, or have to be carefully kept.” Because we have already become…we have become real…we have become strong. We have people in our lives…friends, family etc. that are ready to offer us unconditional love. And when we encounter those moments in life where we might feel loose in the joints and shabby, we know that we will come out on the other end with that love, even stronger. Simply? We become… REAL.